which is better

Subject: which is better Wed Jun 03, 2009 10:20 am

I have a friend who is now divorced and with someone else,but the thing is this when he was married its the female he wanted to spend his life with,but he wasn't getting what he wants from her,now he is getting what he wants but not the person he wants to be with.

My question is which is better to get what you want but not the person or have the person you want and not getting what you desire.i am waiting

Subject: Re: which is better Thu Jun 04, 2009 8:03 am

It's not fear either way. If your friend is with some one who is offering him what he wants and he is not into that person, then he is just settling and it is not fear to the female; and if he is not getting what he wants from the person is wants to spend the rest of his life with, then he is not being fair to himself either. I prefer having the two qualities. I guess some of us are simply lucky. lol!

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He needs to start searching again bro.

Subject: Re: which is better Thu Jun 04, 2009 8:38 am

You will never get it both ways, so i will settle for the benifits not the person the person will leave but the benifits i alredy enjoy

Subject: Re: which is better Thu Jun 04, 2009 3:38 pm

You are a bad one.. lol!

Subject: Re: which is better Thu Jun 04, 2009 3:40 pm

Again, if the benefits are that great.. I would like to enjoy it forever. I dont understand how you talk about that you will already enjoyed.. I thought that you wanted the benefits to be continous..Man.

Subject: Re: which is better Thu Jun 04, 2009 6:52 pm

Remember nothing good last forever,if its too good its going to hurt somewhere along the way.Remember its not everything that is necessary is important but, "everything that is important is necessary," or not all wants are needs,so enjoy today care not what tomorrow bring settle for the benifits it hurt less and will be missed much faster.LOL